I just returned from the 2018 Team USA Athlete Career Education (ACE) Summit, a three-day event held by the US Olympic Committee after each Olympic Games to provide our Olympians and Paralympians with the knowledge and connections they need as they contemplate “what’s next” after having competed on their sports’ biggest stage in the world.
An essential part of the summit is “Networking Practice,” which provides our athletes with the opportunity to have informal, human-to-human chats with people who have walked in their shoes and have gone on to success in life after sport, seemingly without a hitch.
During the Summit, I caught up with ACE Network mentor Lauryn Williams. Lauryn is an athletic all-star: the first female US Olympian to win medals in both summer and winter Olympics, with 2004 Olympic silver medal in the 100m, 2012 Olympic gold medal in the 4x100m relay, and 2014 Olympic silver in the two-woman bobsled at Sochi 2014. She has since gone on to found Worth Winning, a company recreating financial planning for young, busy tech-savvy professionals and athletes.
When asked about her experiences as an ACE Mentor, her reaction was, “At first, I was a bit nervous. Why would anyone want to talk to me? I wasn’t sure I would have anything helpful to add.”
Hearing this was very surprising. Lauryn’s counsel is quite sought after, and her ACE mentees’ results on and off the field demonstrate why.
But it got me thinking about my own early experiences as a mentor. I had those same qualms: what did I have to share? Enough to make a difference. Would I give them bad advice and screw them up? Absolutely not! In the end, great mentees take ownership of their journeys. We are just here to help with a few useful tips, and a story or two to let them know they are not alone.
Anyone who has ever accomplished anything in their lives (read: “all of us”) has learned lessons along the way. Sharing those lessons–the mistakes, the triumphs, the “if I had it to do over” stories–can help the next generations achieve things we could only dream of.
Think about your own experiences for a moment. What do you have to share?